I would say no, but I am not the last word in anything. Things were so passionate that we were bankrupting ourselves on planet tickets, so after a whirlwind 4 month courtship I quit my job and moved in with him- on the other side of the country. It is a pleasure to be here. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. It is very, very powerful. what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? This relationship can be really passionate, fiery, and exciting. These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. I feel like it helps me. A Lilith conjunct Mars synastry creates an intense hot affair that can lead to abuse of power and hostility, and this couple must learn to take care of each other before passion consumes their lives. To me, it always is. Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. Hi, Lilith person helps Ceres person find their power and authenticity. I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. 9. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo exactly opposite my Sun, conjunct my Asc in 18 Virgo, and I am NOT an abuser, unless its in self defense.Either way, I dont enjoy hurting people. In my studies and usage of them, they play out to be the abuser and the victim. A Sun conjunct Lilith transit highlights the power traits like charisma, magnetism, emotional force and leadership qualities of the Sun. I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. Thank you for your words. 10. Please, keep giving your opinion. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. The year started with powerful and forward thinking energy that will assist in elevating us both spiritually and subconsciously. I have found that when someone's personal planets make strong aspects to someone else's natal Eros, a strong sexual bond and attraction is indicated. Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. How do you relate to all the men who have their Pluto there? With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. I am one person with one persons experience, of course. M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? Thank you, I read some things. Thanks for your help Amiann. Eros-Psyche: Eros and Psyche are natural mates. Lilith is looking for sacred sex. I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. I'm still not even sure if Eros/Lilith contacts are positive or negative? It takes me several hours so I could not do it here. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Lol just noticed what you wrote at the end about Mars/Uranus, sorry! It would have ruined my relationship with my mother because I would have feared her even though she showed no signs of abuse. What about mars, Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo? with Dejanira conjunct his natal Saturn, Mars. I only didnt like that its being portrayed as complete truth that will always occur, when its definitely not the case. Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. As long as we kept connecting the way we had been sexually, I was willing to "fight" for what I thought we had and felt I could withstand anything. However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! It took me a minute to think about the wounded bird types, but I think you might be right. This brings out their dark side. 5. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? Can this aspect be calmed down by a Mars conjunct Saturn contact? Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. In fact, it is the opposite. If you know, let me know! In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. In the conjunction, the planets are next to each other( or on top of each other in the exact conjunction). Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. I just never have, not that it is not good. Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. Yes, it would. It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life. Did you know I had one? Thank you =). I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. We have our arguments and I sometimes feel put down by him (and, to be fair, he feels the same way about me) and sometimes my self-esteem suffers. I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. Who would bring who abuse? or is the bad guy Nessus only dangerous when in conjonction with Dejanira ? The lilith person knows exactly how they effect the ic and can really play with them over time. I could not agree more with this. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. Conjunctions, oppositions, and trines are best. Please please do Nessus conjunct Lilith in synastry?? 4. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. What does that mean? I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. I am not asking you to do mine either. Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. I cant really relate to Nessus at all, though I sometimes think I can feel BML itching under my skin. Im not accepting you scaring people into running from possible happy, fulfilling relationships over one aspect that none of us even know how it can manifest in millions of ways. I think you will have the urge to abuse. Could it be a past life meaning? Most Astrologers dont tell things straight like I do. If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. Where did you get these theories from? Currently you have JavaScript disabled. Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? She is deeply alluring and irresistible. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. They have lots of soulmate connections in the charts and both make really strong NN conjunctions and squares in synastry. The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. This will be HOT. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. Talk about deep dark sexual desiresTremendous sexual need to control. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. I suppose you have choice on whether to act on it. Is this you? What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? You never want to leave your beloveds side until they put you in the grave. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. Can it be dangerous amiann? Eros conjunction sun and lucky point.. and mercury, uranus, pluto and venus in house seven, libra. The Lilith person might have trouble with issues surrounding desirability. Do you have their synastry you could post on my Forum? Lovely, Lo! Mars pluto aspects Also, It doesnt suit me. There are some other great planet aspects but I am very curious about the ones I listed. DO they have Moon trine Moon or Moon conjunct Moon. This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. It is real to be neutral. I would need to see more, Jenn! Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring . I have 8 scorpio ascendant and he 4 scorpio jupiter. Im 30 with a mother that is 32 years older than myself and have never experienced any abuse, and Ive been alive and around my mother long enough to experience it. on Dejanira and Nessus. It is really rocking my world right now <3. Thank you for your comment. There are millions of possible outcomes, and none should be claimed as the truth. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. I suppose I should add that. I have seen it in a few people, only. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. it would be such a fortunate relationship with his Jupiter conjunct my ASC in synastry, and Venus-Jupiter exact composite conjunction right on his natal Sun! Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. What conjuncts your Aura? Sun person helps Lilith person recognize their subconscious gifts and strengths. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. They have a very imaginative sex life. This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. The Sun person naturally understands who the Moon person is and vice versa. In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct . The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. Moon conjunct pluto Im composite and moon in 12th house composite (our feelings were a secret for a long time as we didnt know how we felt and were not able to be together for a long time). There is NO way this will work out well, in my opinion. Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. YOU are the most important person to me. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature.